Movies…they don’t move me much.
Ever odd once in a while, however – I’ll hear a line in a screenplay….. that speaks to something inside. It’s rare – but it happens.
Take The Sound of Music. With my little ones perched on couches, and the library DVD dancing on the television screen – the Lord highlighted, megaphoned, a short exchange between the Captain and Maria:
Captain von Trapp: “I don’t know my children.”
Fraulein Maria: “There’s still time, Captain! They want so much to be close to you.”
Does this strike anyone else? Peirce anyone else?
Children….they want to be known. They want someone to know what their favorite color is, and how they like their eggs, and what all their scars are from. They want someone to set rules and mark boundaries because it means they are treasured, loved. They want someone to remember what kind of baby they were, their first word, their first friend. Children need to be really known, really studied.
Children…of all ages – they want to be unearthed. They want someone to care enough – to dig deep and wipe away the dirt – and discover the treasure they are. Children want to feel of worth. Worth loving, worth remembering, worth time poured in.
Am I providing this, as a parent? Are you?
Are we entering into dialog with our children? Dialog that surpasses chit chat and surface interaction? Are we stopping….. and just studying? And just taking note of how they have changed, who they have become, who they are becoming?
Do the young ones still in our homes – see the sides of our faces staring at computer screens or smart phones more often than they see the whites of our smiles? We must face our children. We must bless them not only with our presence, but with our attention. Are we squaring our shoulders up with theirs….looking straight at them, hearing their hearts?
This convicts me.
Right now – the youngest is sitting in the middle of a play saucer….grasping for rattles and noisemakers and shoving them into his mouth. The middle one – she is ‘helping’ him do this. And the oldest – has just filled the tub with water…to see if his Lego boats will float. And their Mama needs to just hit the ‘publish’ button, so that she can join them.
As we go about our day, our week – let’s remember what the Father does, shall we? He turns towards us, faces us, sees us, hears us, and blesses us with Himself. Yes Lord, help us to do the same!
"We must face our children. We must bless them not only with our presence, but with our attention. Are we squaring our shoulders up with theirs….looking straight at them, hearing their hearts?"
Oh, my! Certainly convicts me! I love how you remind us that the Father turns towards us, He faces us. He even inclines His ear to hear us. Oh, that I would be sure I give my full attention to my little ones.
Thank you for this. Oh…and I LOVE The Sound of Music. 🙂
Blessings,
K