Monthly Archives: December 2012


Satan wants you to straddle the fence.

Sitting there…perched on the in-between…indecisive…incapable of fully committing.

Because he knows that if he keeps you in the middle – your life will journey toward nothing – and your life will count for nothing, as well.

It’s safer for him and his agenda – if you simply sit on the hedge.

Many of us live stationary lives. Not because we are called to it, but because we are caught in it. Whispers from the enemy make us waver between this and that, here and there. This teeter-totter continues and we end up spending all our days smack in the middle – withholding from total engagement.

And this renders us useless.

Satan knows it. And Satan likes it.

If he can just keep us from full devotion – he can keep us from all fruitfulness.

Want an example?

Take motherhood. I unexpectedly entered into this arena 6 years ago. And while I love my children and I love what I do – I’ve wavered.

And I’ve found myself thinking these thoughts:

“What if I’m really suppose to be out in the workforce? What if all this is a mistake? What if I should actually be a working woman?”

But in the depths of me…I know.

It’s been spoken over me and clearly seen – that yes – this is what He has called me to. Yet – these questions rise to the surface. And they are just loud enough for me to take a pause. They are just enough to make me hesitate. They make me question what I know.

And they cause fence-sitting.

I’ve discovered that these wanderings keep me from going all out as a mother. They keep me from going all in as a house-wife.

And the result? Half-hearted efforts and piecemeal offerings.

And this kind of floating – takes place not only in motherhood, but in ministry (Did I hear him right about this service opportunity?”), in marriage (“Did God really want me to marry this person?”), in moving (Did God really say to go?”), in relationships ( Did He really want me to befriend this individual?”).

If all this sounds familiar….it should. It’s a tactic the enemy has used from the beginning:

Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” (Genesis 3:1)

And the fallen angel knows that all this questioning makes us discontent.

It makes us ‘kinda sorta’ people.

It makes us……lukewarm. Not hot. Not cold. But gross in-between.

All this…it’s been heavy on me these last few weeks of the year. So this weekend – I’d love for you to join me in wholeheartedly asking the Lord:

“Where am I caught…..coasting in the middle?”

“Where do You want me to fully commit?”

“What lies am I believing about my life?”

Ask Him to pinpoint and highlight just a few areas. He’ll show you.

And on Tuesday – we will reconvene. And I’ll share what I feel like He’s wanting me to focus on in this new year.

And together – we will dive in……..COMPLETELY.

2013? I’ll see ya then.

Christmas 2013

Today. It should be a sacred celebration. Hovering all around the Christmas tree and through the baked goods – Simmering around every hot stove and in each gift given – With every door swinging open to welcome kin – Shining in every lit bulb – And most certainly sitting in the beating hearts of all the people recognizing this day……… Read more →

Through and Through

Standing at the kitchen sink today – washing the inside of a bowl…..He lays it all out on the counter: “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you clean the outside of the cup and the plate, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. You blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and the plate,… Read more →


“He’s one-third of the way….” “What do you mean….one-third of the way?” “He’s six years old….one-third of his time under our total care is completed. Only two-thirds to go.” My husband casually dropped this bit of information into my heart Saturday evening – and it was like all the lights in the universe popped on. My oldest….he’s one-third of his… Read more →

Mama to Mama

Motherhood. It’s so invasive, isn’t it? It’s a blessing, a gift, an honor, a miracle – but yes….down right invasive. It’s that way from the start – from the two pink lines. Starting there…. the concern and protectiveness – they invade something fierce. And then it never stops. After the invasion of having a person occupying your mid-section…..they come into the… Read more →


Louder isn’t always better. I wish I would have learned this 15 years ago. Instead I learned it about 15 minutes before sitting down to write this. Understanding it earlier would have saved me from many obnoxious displays of high volume living. I was under the notion that the louder your life is – the more successful you’ll be – the more likely… Read more →


I feel like I’ve just invited a party of people over to my house while it’s still a mess. Welcome, friends. If you’ve come over from my old blog – thank you so much for making the journey to this new spot with me. If you’re dropping in all new and wondering what’s going on….take a look at this, please?… Read more →